Make this birthday a little different. Rather than focusing on people, it’s time to focus on yourself and be the charge of making your special day super special. Look into the mirror and define yourself. Plan your day and tell yourself that the happiness you create is more than the sum of joy you’ve acquired from people over these years.

This birthday, make it unique for yourself. Here are 7 ideas that will help you treat yourself and help you learn the art of making yourself happy first. Take the guide:

1. Solo Trip

Discover pleasure in knowing yourself by travelling the unknown paths with no one to accompany you except self. This is one of the best gifts you can give yourself as this will help welcome newness in your life.

2. A Promise

Of all the promises we make, the most important ones are those that we make to ourselves. Your commitment to yourself could be anything that will help you improve. It could be to walk away from toxic relationships, being appreciative of friends, being kinder to self, finding a productive hobby etc.

3. Get a Pet

Pets are great to unburden stress and anxiety. Their companionship has a positive correlation with our mental health. So, connect with a dog, cat, bird on your birthday and experience infinite love despite the nonverbal communication.

4. Learn Musical Instrument

Learning a musical instrument and knowing about notes and rhythm is a great way to structure your brain positively. It will help boost mood, improve, coordination, comprehension and mathematical skills, and provide relief from stress on a deeper level.

5. Gift Hampers

The one who understands you the best is you. So, make sure you do not miss to surprise yourself with a lovely and sumptuous gifts online. It could be a basket of handmade chocolates, a combo of flowers and cakes, a personalised accessory, tickets to a trip etc.

6. Explore New Cuisines

A lavish dinner with self is one of the most satisfying feeling ever. Visit a fancy restaurant and try new cuisine. It could be a hit, or you might not approve of the experiment, but most, definitely fine dining with self will remain an experience to be cherished.

7. Do Nothing

Sometimes, it is important to sit and relax. It is essential to heal, and self-reflect and find yourself amidst the chaos, complexities and unpredictability of life. Ask yourself “Am I happy?”, “When was the last time I truly smiled?” Immerse yourself in some deep introspection to get the right direction and hold of life.

So, this birthday, make yourself a priority and treat yourself in unique ways.