How to Put a Spark back in You Relationship
Ladies, you would all agree that love is strange; it ignites passion, it causes one to never feel like they are sacrificing, and it makes one feel complete and satisfied. All of this happens when you are in love and then one day without warning it can all stop. All of a sudden fire that was burning so bright becomes a pilot light that seems like a strong wind could blow out.
The reasons why this happens fills thousands of books written over centuries, but what is important is that if you want, there are ways to get the fire back and burning hot. The key is to take an uncompromising approach to making this happen and to do those things that rekindle love. Here are a list of things we have assembled to help you get the fire burning brighter.
Pump Up Your Appearance
At the heart of many low burning fires is the feeling by one person that the other is just not as attractive any more. Let’s be honest, appearance has a lot to do with attractiveness, so we have to do the things we can to work on our appearance to become more attractive to the other party.
Maybe you have gotten older and neglected your skin care and thought no one would not notice or care. Well the odds are that your partner does care, so you need to take action. Start with a high quality skin care regimen like the Jeunesse Youth Enhancement System (Y.E.S.) that will give you younger looking skin that glows. The products can in a short time get you looking more beautiful than ever, and make your partner think back to when things were more steamy.
Lose a Little Weight
There is a social bias today to not talk about a woman’s weight and one always needs to be sensitive about stating reasons for asking a woman to lose weight. The good reasons for asking a woman to lose weight are for better health, and because you simply feel they look better when they are smaller. This last reason can directly relate to a woman’s self-confidence which is why we bring it up here.
The reality is that if you are carrying some extra pounds, when you lose that weight, you tend to look younger. So again, to be more attractive to your better half, consider taking off some weight. The great thing sis that weight tends to come off from the top down meaning it will be shown in your face first so even a smaller amount like ten pounds can make the face look younger. Be careful however to not go overboard with weight loss because there is a point where losing too much weight can make you look unhealthy and unattractive.
Plan a Date
Chances are that you are both wrapped up in your busy schedules and not thinking much about each other from a romance standpoint. One way to get these feelings fired up again is to plan a date together. Carve out some time where the two of you can sit and make the date plans for a special night. Look to do something that will be within your budget but memorable.
Perhaps you two have a special restaurant you love, but have not been in a while. Maybe there is a new musical playing in town. Or better yet, maybe you can get away for a weekend to a favorite getaway spot.
Planning this date will get the juices flowing and perhaps even create some sparks before you actually go on the date. In any case, it will be a wonderful night out together and it is very attractive when a partner makes this type suggestion. So make some plans.
Finding a spark again takes time and commitment, but the payoff is definitely worth the work. So do the things you need to do to get the passion back in your relationship, and you will be glad you did.